My Life Journal

Jon Tan. Born: April 1976. Reborned: June 2004 in the mighty name "Jesus of Nazereth". Serving God wholeheartedly. Love you as much as how God loves you when He send His one and only son to the cross.

Monday, October 06, 2008

Building Relationship with LOVE

This is an interesting entry by Jon. Not sure if its God's timing but it happens after Jon had a heated arguement with a Sister in church... Seriously she is God-damned rediculous and he does not feel like seeing her again ever...

This particular day, Jon even seek consul from one of his mentor - to seek third party advise. That evening, he found this message in his face...

BBG (Business Breakthrough Group) meeting of City Harvest Church at NTUC Building at 1 Marina, on October 2, 2008. 7.30pm
Speaker: Ps. Meng (choongtm@pacific.net.sg)

Bible verses:

Read Psalm 23 especially verse 6:
"Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever."

Psalm 107:9:
"for he satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things."

Jeremiah 31:25
"I will refresh the weary and satisfy the faint."

3 John 1:2
"as your soul prosper, so are you as a whole. Be prosperous in your walk with Christ."

These are 7 Spiritual needs for us in BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS:
Spirituality
Love
Self-esteem
Knowledge
Security
Freedom
Aesthetic

On this occasion Ps. Meng, focus on building relationships particularly with LOVE.

The thing about love is that it requires you to work it out with one another. There are 10 criteria for a successful relationships:
  1. Speak a little less, listen a little more. Just like some ancient Greek philosopher wisely mentioned, we are created to have 2 ears and 1 mouth; meaning, you should listen double than you speak. Apart from that, listen with interest for example watch the body language of the speaker as you listen.
  2. Which is more important? Being right or maintaining harmony? If your answer is “being right” it means that you are maintaining your personal pride. Maintaining harmony is the answer as you are able to back down. Let people made their mistake, as they may learn from their mistakes. Do not force feed your opinion. No matter how right you are. Do not gloat, but readily offer a helping hand when they are in trouble due to their mistake.
  3. You must know when to keep silent.
  4. Avoid gossip
  5. Forgiveness
  6. The right motive.
  7. Must have one-ness. Do not harbor jealousy and be considerate toward one another. You can’t reach people’s heart if you’re being too straightforward. Learn to paraphrase your wordings. You would want to be treated as how you treat others.
  8. Inject humor in your relationship. Learn to enjoy one another. Be able to laugh at yourself.
  9. Work to improve your relationship, not over analyze it.
  10. Learn to have concern and detachment. Showing concern is okay but don’t be clingy as sometimes we forgot to detached our lives away from the others for them to lead their own lives.

    Remember a good friendship is able to offer goodwill.

Frankly after that evening, one of the struggles that Jon faces each day is point Number 2 - Being Right or Maintaining Harmony. Seriously, this is a struggle for many Christians as they try to juggle right living with God and disciplining others. It takes righteousness to correct oneself and it takes humility to maintain harmony... Only Jesus can achieve both.

My Financial Views II

This is an email exchange between Brother Albert and Jon...

As usual our Big Brother Albert has adopted a more balanced approach in this topic but Jon felt that he should stand his ground to speak the truth for God...

It's true that there are a lot of grey areas in life and there are no real "rights" or "wrongs" in certain topics, but as long as we pressed on for the truth, there is nothing for us to worry about when the day comes to be accounted for.

Anyway here's the emails:

From: jon [mailto:jon@stxch.com]
Sent: Monday, September 22, 2008 12:44 AM
Subject: RE: Wake Up Call

Hi Guys,

Frankly I did not really research much on investments and related topics. In fact the closest I did was to buy some AIA funds using my CPF money when the government first open up the door for investments and I convert it back to $$$ to pay off my house down payment. It was a $20,000 investment and I managed to make around $2,000 after several years of “parking” the money there… Can I call myself a “proven investor” now?

Anyway my philosophy is always asking myself “biblical logics” on everything that I stumbled on… from gay/lesbian staff to what “NEW ISRAEL” is in the End Times and now the recent financial crisis. In fact I have recently watched Schindler’s List and Hitler-The rise of the Evil and I am currently pondering on his Holocaust idea… dun worry I am not thinking of killing people… just wondering how a man could mislead a nation into doing something so insane, yet they do not realize its wrong and they are still so proud of it.

So can you imagine the same kind of persuasion on other things that do not involve killing people? I think we can name anything under the sun and anyone can easily mislead someone.

So continuing with this financial topic and how many of us are misled by what we are doing… here’s a recent news article about the protests in HK over the Lehman issue, please read this piece of news as I find it very interesting:
http://www.reuters.com/article/topNews/idUSPEK7193220080921?feedType=RSS&feedName=topNews&pageNumber=1&virtualBrandChannel=0

Here’s a few extracts that I want to highlight:

The protesters, many of them elderly retirees, accused the government of failing to provide proper oversight and said local banks did not do enough to warn of them of the risks involved.

"They were misleading investors on the risk. They said the minibonds were highly stable," said W.H. Chiu, a 66-year-old retiree.

An advertisement issued by a unit of Sun Hung Kai & Co Ltd touted the product as "a strong collection letting you invest with peace of mind", while noting in fine print that the notes involved "a high degree of risk".


Please take a second look at the above underlined, is it familiar to some of us? If this is not biblical (in misleading people) I really do not know what is… How many people look at the “fine prints” when they are doing their so-call speculation/investments? Based on my entire life experiences, I always hear people telling myself and others that this is stable, that is safe and things are fine… But none of them will tell you the fine print behind. To our surprise these so call “fine prints” are usually the ones that are most important. Point is, many people always based their BIBLICAL KNOWLEDGE on the worldly visible prints rather than the important fine truth…

Like I said before, you will not see the light until darkness come… and sorry, I am now enjoying shining light on the fine prints in the dark right now. Please do not judge me as I am only boasting about the biblical truth.

Like I point out on Friday CG, these are some verses that are so relevant that I think everyone of us can hold on to in whatever financial/business situations you are about to do:

Proverbs 20:23 “The LORD detests differing weights, and dishonest scales do not please him.”

Proverbs 11:1 “The LORD abhors dishonest scales, but accurate weights are his delight.”


Hope its enough to open up some of our mind… Anyway guys please do not get me wrong. I am not saying that it’s not biblical to speculate/invest… me for one would go to have some fun in casinos if I have a chance to go Genting, Macau or even Las Vegas. In fact I am waiting to check out our local casinos too… My intention is very simple. To identify and draw a line between plain harmless gambling fun from Biblical Truths. Also it’s important that we do not try to justify our pure harmless gambling fun by “spiritualising” it…

Okay, that’s all for my Sunday musing. I would like to sign off with this:

Proverbs 20:15 “Gold there is, rubies in abundance, but lips that speak knowledge are a rare jewel.”

Jon




From: Albert Wang
Subject: RE: Wake Up Call
Date: Friday, 19 September, 2008, 11:57 AM

Hi,

Any arguments can be skewed. Such is the topic on investments. So let me try to add some balance to it.

So in perspective. The whole economy is based on what we call "Unfair scale". Unless we understand this system, we will be rob by the lack of knowledge. The issue of AIG is a lesson that only our God is the true security. By no means that we should avoid exercising common sense. In live, anything can be gamble. In business can be gamble. In marriage, can be gamble IF we do not make risk assessments criterias.

In investment/business, we should never use what we can't afford , that is risk money. In Godly stewardship we are called to do what we know best in terms of management of His in our stewardship. In any case, It is not encourage to jump in to financial instruments. Namely stocks, forex, options, bonds, funds w/o due diligence. This area need knowlege and proper money management skills. It takes many hours of discipline and never a stroke of luck or what so ever for those who succeed. And it is true that market is down, wealth is not created nor destroyed. It is simply TRANSFERRED. This is system we live in, with the introduction of fiat currency and departure from gold standards.We are "robbed" since day one we were born. And ppl do make lots of money when it is down. And they legally "ROB YOU" in terms of inflations, investments draw downs etc. (e.g Oei guy makes millions and wealth is transferred)

Now think about this, those ppl, fund managers, gambled our money. If they have in mind our interest, it would not have been like this today.And you never know , in case we put faith in our CPF money, may one day go to smoke. Nothing is for certain. And our bank currencies may come to nothing. Cos they are nothing as theyare digits and numbers. Think about it.Lets put faith in God, what we can't change He will in due time. Mean time, be a good steward and not be lazy nor ignorant, in how we use our dime, time and resources. Hope this present a balanced view ont his topic.

God bless,
Albert

My Financial Views

Recently Jon has a few email correspondents with some people, and think its good that we journal it up for others to take a look and share their views...

From: jon@stxch.com
Subject: Wake Up Call
Date: Fri, 19 Sep 2008 11:15:14 +0800

Indeed it's a wakeup call for everyone in financial sector. All these happen as PANIC grips the credit markets in the world financial sectors. Even conservative financial organization such as insurance giant AIG is not spared...

I remembered people always argued with me regarding speculations/investments been safe and secure as long as they are "smart in STUDYING market trends". Some even argued that they can make good speculations/investments even if market goes down. Worse of all people would go for so-called "guaranteed profits" by doing "shorts" without coming out cash at all. I really hope that these so call Christian speculators/investors, who insist that all these are “NOT GAMBLING” can reap profits through these turmoil.

Here's the report that some might want to read: http://sg.news.yahoo.com/afp/20080919/tts-us-finance-banking-972e412.html

Here's an extract:

A move by British market regulators to ban short-selling -- a technique that profits from falling share prices -- lifted hopes that other markets may follow.


In the US, new rules aimed at curbing speculative "naked short" sales that aim to profit from falling share prices took effect as a probe was launched into market manipulation.

New York state attorney general Andrew Cuomo announced a probe into illegal short-selling practices that may have hurt finance firms including Lehman Brothers and Morgan Stanley.
Cuomo said that short-selling itself is legal but that "what is illegal is if you are spreading false information, rumors, and you join a conspiracy to purposely drive down the price of a stock, and you are profiting from the decline," he said in an interview with CNN.

Cuomo said the manipulation of the price of a stock with false information is securities fraud.
"Companies like Lehman, companies like Morgan Stanley, companies like Goldman Sachs who are seeing the rapid (share) declines, we have complaints that there are episodes of illegal short-selling, and that is what we are investigating."


For those who claimed that all these are not unbiblical as it is not written in the bible...please think again... Here’s what the bible says:

Matthew 16:26What good will it be for a man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his soul?

Romans 12:2: Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

1 Corinthians 1:20Where is the wise man? Where is the scholar? Where is the philosopher of this age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world?

Revelation 18:23The light of a lamp will never shine in you again. The voice of bridegroom and bride will never be heard in you again. Your merchants were the world's great men. By your magic spell all the nations were led astray.

Anyway as in Revelation 18:23, “Your merchants were the world’s great men”... the collapse of these worldwide companies are exactly managed by the world smartest people playing top CEOs in these well known organizations. It's sad to see all these financial problems but I thank God for the financial shaking so that our people are awoken from this "false dream" of financial stability based on massive borrowing and debts. Now let's continue to see how many more companies need bailing out...

Back to speculations/investments-is-not-gambling topic. Let me say at least in casino people "gamble" with their cash on hand and they would stop when their cash runs out. The bankers do not play unless your bets are on the table. At least people would not lose more than they have... So which is worse? Gamblers or Speculators/Investors? My answer is they are both the same. Money make Money or Money lose money. Bible teaches us that it's our hard labour that should produce fruits, nothing else.

As usual, I hereby continue to claim that the financial world is the darkest place of all because of all kinds of unbiblical "credit dealings" going on in the financial marketplace. May God continue to open those eyes of people who refuse to acknowledge that...

May God also protect our Christian brothers/sisters working in banks and asset/fund management companies that they can receive deliverance through His mighty hands.
Also lastly may God protect our government, local banks and financial institutions that we remain stability and well managed. (By the way Temasek seems to make some $$$ after the bailing out of Merril by Bank of America ... so that’s good news for Singapore.)

JON TAN