Building Relationship with LOVE
This is an interesting entry by Jon. Not sure if its God's timing but it happens after Jon had a heated arguement with a Sister in church... Seriously she is God-damned rediculous and he does not feel like seeing her again ever...
This particular day, Jon even seek consul from one of his mentor - to seek third party advise. That evening, he found this message in his face...
BBG (Business Breakthrough Group) meeting of City Harvest Church at NTUC Building at 1 Marina, on October 2, 2008. 7.30pm
Speaker: Ps. Meng (choongtm@pacific.net.sg)
Bible verses:
Read Psalm 23 especially verse 6:
"Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever."
Psalm 107:9:
"for he satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things."
Jeremiah 31:25
"I will refresh the weary and satisfy the faint."
3 John 1:2
"as your soul prosper, so are you as a whole. Be prosperous in your walk with Christ."
These are 7 Spiritual needs for us in BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS:
Spirituality
Love
Self-esteem
Knowledge
Security
Freedom
Aesthetic
On this occasion Ps. Meng, focus on building relationships particularly with LOVE.
The thing about love is that it requires you to work it out with one another. There are 10 criteria for a successful relationships:
- Speak a little less, listen a little more. Just like some ancient Greek philosopher wisely mentioned, we are created to have 2 ears and 1 mouth; meaning, you should listen double than you speak. Apart from that, listen with interest for example watch the body language of the speaker as you listen.
- Which is more important? Being right or maintaining harmony? If your answer is “being right” it means that you are maintaining your personal pride. Maintaining harmony is the answer as you are able to back down. Let people made their mistake, as they may learn from their mistakes. Do not force feed your opinion. No matter how right you are. Do not gloat, but readily offer a helping hand when they are in trouble due to their mistake.
- You must know when to keep silent.
- Avoid gossip
- Forgiveness
- The right motive.
- Must have one-ness. Do not harbor jealousy and be considerate toward one another. You can’t reach people’s heart if you’re being too straightforward. Learn to paraphrase your wordings. You would want to be treated as how you treat others.
- Inject humor in your relationship. Learn to enjoy one another. Be able to laugh at yourself.
- Work to improve your relationship, not over analyze it.
- Learn to have concern and detachment. Showing concern is okay but don’t be clingy as sometimes we forgot to detached our lives away from the others for them to lead their own lives.
Remember a good friendship is able to offer goodwill.
Frankly after that evening, one of the struggles that Jon faces each day is point Number 2 - Being Right or Maintaining Harmony. Seriously, this is a struggle for many Christians as they try to juggle right living with God and disciplining others. It takes righteousness to correct oneself and it takes humility to maintain harmony... Only Jesus can achieve both.
posted by Jon Tan @ 10/06/2008 10:27:00 AM
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